‎Music Review: Lodù’s Wine & Honey Reclaims the Art of the “Abokoku” Yearner

In a contemporary music ecosystem where detachment is a badge of honor and “situationships” dominate the charts, modern R&B and Afrocentric music have largely abandoned the concept of unconditional love. 

Enter Lodù, a singular singer-songwriter and producer whose debut EP, ‘Wine & Honey’, acts as a fierce, unapologetic manifesto for the extreme lover. On this seven-track project, the Nigerian singer establishes herself not just as a standard romancier, but as an unapologetic Abokoku, a cultural “yearner” whose devotion is so absolute, it flirts intentionally with the sublime and the sacrificial.


To fully grasp the weight of Wine & Honey, one must look at the evolution of her artistry. In past teaser works and singles like her early iterations of “Ìfẹ́mi”, Lodù merely dipped her toes into the waters of romance, exploring the tentative, fragile beginnings of attraction. But Wine & Honey represents a complete thematic leap. She isn’t just dipping her toes anymore; she is diving headfirst into an uncompromising depth of commitment.



 Recording entirely from her home studio in Yaba, Lodu strips away all external distraction to document an insular, totalizing love story that completely rejects the modern safety net of a breakup contingency.


The term Abokoku (derived from the cultural concept of one who stays loyal, or symbolically “dies with their partner”) has occasionally been used in modern internet discourse with an ironic or cautionary tone about boundaries. Lodù, however, completely strips it of its irony. She reclaims the phrase, wearing her submission and intense yearning like a suit of armor.This thematic core is woven directly through the sonic textures of the EP:The Yearner’s Decree on “Olówó Orími”: Lodù channels ancestral Yoruba praise poetry (Oriki) to laud her partner.







 This track isn’t a casual expression of affection. By styling her lover as Olówó Orími (the ruler/owner of her head), she proudly steps into the role of an Abokoku, giving away her autonomy in exchange for absolute spiritual union.The Covenant of “Ìfẹ́mi” (feat. DOTTi The Deity): Alongside DOTTi’s theatrical folk-soul energy, the track becomes less of a pop duet and more of a wedding vow under a canopy. 

Lodù sings from a perspective reminiscent of the biblical Ruth (“where you die, I will die”). The yearning here is heavy, rich, and dense—she explicitly demands a love with no plot twists, no cheating, and no exit strategies.”Lolufé” as the Portal: The opening track uses lush Afro-Jazz instrumentation to establish her vulnerability as her ultimate superpower. 



Lodù is yearning openly, displaying a desperate, highly intentional desire to be completely consumed by her beloved. What prevents Wine & Honey from feeling overbearing or codependent is the absolute brilliance of its sonic architecture. Working with producers like Phleksibu and Ojurere, Lodù mirrors the duality of the title.


 

The production feels like wine—intoxicating, rich, and deeply mature—while her vocal delivery flows smoothly like honey. The acoustic-forward guitar plucks, heavy bass lines, and subtle brass elements give her intense yearning a sacred, timeless gravity.

Wine & Honey is a breathtakingly cohesive artistic statement. In a world that advises people to keep their guards up, Lodù creates an alternative reality where tearing your walls down is the ultimate victory. 

By proudly leaning into her identity as an Abokoku and an elite-tier yearner, she has delivered a flawless body of work that doesn’t just celebrate love, it deifies it.

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